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He hasnt called back, what to do?


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anbMar 6, 1:49pm
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I had a first date (via Craigs List) on Sunday night with Joe. We met for drinks and it lasted about 3hrs. We got along great, lots in common, same age (39). I had a bad cold (true) so he said, instead of kissing me, he'd like to give me a hug and he did. very cute.

I sent an email Monday, thanking him for drinks, and said I had fun. Monday evening, he replied with pretty much the same comments.

He called Tuesday morning, but the reception was bad, so he called about 5 times. We finally chatted for about 5 minutes before getting cut off again. I texted him that I had work to do and maybe we could chat later. By 10:30pm, no phone call, so I called him and left a nice message.

Its Thursday and I haven't heard back. I'm 39 and after years of dating have no clue what to do!

Background: he has a very busy job in finance and he's moving his office from Manhattan to the suburbs (where we both live) this weekend.

I don't want to seem desperate or like I am chasing him. I know for a fact that if I wasn't so keen on him I'd pick up the phone no problem.

But I really dig this guy and am totally perplexed about what to do.

help.

inspirationforchMar 8, 2:24pm
Wait for him to call you. You mentioned that he is moving his office this weekend, therefore, yes he will be very busy. If you contact him too much it will turn him off. It may be 2008, however, men still prefer to do the chase. I hope this helps.


He hasnt called back, what to do?

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